No questions - but unsought advice from a mother who has survived the teenage years.
Close the door - and have a deal with her. Room has to be cleaned twice a year, or if the smell becomes noticeable through the closed door when walking past - or if anything crawls out of the room.
If any of these situation arises, my teens were given a deadline to have the room cleaned by - or I did it.
The rule was - whoever cleaned the room had the right to choose what could be thrown out, no questions asked.
Actually, I only carried out the threat a couple of times - usually when she was overwhelmed and welcomed the assistance. However, the rule was that I could choose what was thrown out if I laid my hands on it - if she beat me to picking them up, she could keep it.
Having said that - it really was the threat - in reality there was a bit of negotiation - it was the threat that worked most effectively!
Pam- You spoke of you & I possibly being separated at birth ourselves. Could it be our children have been too? My 13 year old son's room looks much the same, just with a bit more of a guy's decorative theme somewhere under the piles & mess. Thanks for popping by to say hello! Always good to hear from you! Hugs, Karen
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No questions - but unsought advice from a mother who has survived the teenage years.
Close the door - and have a deal with her. Room has to be cleaned twice a year, or if the smell becomes noticeable through the closed door when walking past - or if anything crawls out of the room.
If any of these situation arises, my teens were given a deadline to have the room cleaned by - or I did it.
The rule was - whoever cleaned the room had the right to choose what could be thrown out, no questions asked.
Actually, I only carried out the threat a couple of times - usually when she was overwhelmed and welcomed the assistance. However, the rule was that I could choose what was thrown out if I laid my hands on it - if she beat me to picking them up, she could keep it.
Having said that - it really was the threat - in reality there was a bit of negotiation - it was the threat that worked most effectively!
Pam-
You spoke of you & I possibly being separated at birth ourselves. Could it be our children have been too? My 13 year old son's room looks much the same, just with a bit more of a guy's decorative theme somewhere under the piles & mess.
Thanks for popping by to say hello!
Always good to hear from you!
Hugs,
Karen
That picture could have been of my 14 year daughter's room. I'm so glad I am not alone. There should be a support group.
Lisa
I have a question....Is she okay? Did everyone come out of it alive? LOL.....Amy @ Poppy & Ivy
I'm cleaning it right now I promise!
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-Your FABULOUS daughter Emma
No questions! I have a 15 year old son! (o:
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